Tuesday, March 28, 2006

Governors are mostly men, aren't they daddy?


On our way back from the cabin today, Catie and I stopped at the State Capitol for lunch. We toured the second floor where there are portraits of Oregon Governors.
I pointed out Bob Straub -- standing next to the Willamette, which he helped clean up.
Tom McCall -- who in some ways was responsible for me coming to Oregon.
Barbara Roberts -- with whom I would drink beer at Jonathans at times.
Julius Meier -- whose family started Meirer and Frank.
Vic Ateyah: probably the kindest elected official I met. Many times at lunch he would join us at the lunch table.

Later a friend who works in the governor's office got us into the private office where my ten year old was able to sit in the governor's chair.

As we drove home, Catie said, "most of the governor's are men, aren't they? -- and all of the presidents."

Pregnant pause by dad...

"Times are changing dear. We may have a woman president soon."

My dog at our cabin on a spring day

my office setting today

Sunday, March 26, 2006

Captain Joe and the hunt for razor clams

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One great thing about Joe -- he gets me to places I wouldn't otherwise go. I would have been content last Sunday to sit in my cabin and read. But Joe organized a clam hunt. My fam was excited -- but I said, I am the only one who actually has gone clamming.

From the time I was six months old, my folks and brother would go to Birch Bay and dig clams.

Mom said she would put me on an overturned bucket and let me watch.

Her friend, Vera Porter would sometimes come. It is said she would cut open a raw clam on the beach and tear out a piece of clam muscle and pop it in my mouth, calling it salty gum.

Fast forward to present. The fam was excited about doing this new thing.

But we got to the beach, hung out and watched Greg L, Joe and Rob do the harvesting -- quite a sight in their waiders.

The Parker fam didn't get a single clam -- but that was fine. We enjoyed a great day on the beach with our friends.

And our dog -- loved the run on the beach.

Clamming

Kids at low tide on clam hunt

Teacher April huddling before the clam hunt

Friday, March 24, 2006

How The Oregonian manufactured an epidemic, politicians bought it and you're paying


Meth Madness
How The Oregonian manufactured an epidemic, politicians bought it and you're paying.BY ANGELA VALDEZ avaldez at wweek.com

http://www.wweek.com/editorial/3220/7368/

Thursday, March 23, 2006

Who else tossed their new phone book in the recycling?


A friend just dropped by the office and told me she picked up her new phone directory and directly moved it to recycling. As she said, if you can't find it on the Internet, you aren't going to find it in the phone book.

Same thing happened at our house yesterday.

Sometime in our lifetime we will see its total demise. How can we accelerate it?
We are talking a huge industry that will die with it. Advertising rates for the phone book have been huge. I am guessing they are not much of an investment these days.

I wonder.

Could we get a state law that allows an opt out of having a book sent to you?

Wednesday, March 22, 2006

Do Republican Men think different?

This from the pollster Bob Moore


In our recent statewide voter survey (conducted March 9-10, 2006), voters favor
eliminating the kicker income tax rebate for corporations and redirecting funds to
public schools by a 62-29% margin. Another proposal which would eliminate
corporate kicker refunds to create a rainy day fund for economic emergencies is
favored by a narrower, 54-34% margin.
Majorities of voters in most subgroups throughout the state favor eliminating the
corporate kicker and using the money to fund public schools.

The exception is Republican men, who oppose this idea today.

Monday, March 20, 2006

Saturday, March 18, 2006

Thursday, March 16, 2006

My life as an old Kodak commercial

If you are of -- a certain age -- you remember it. The TV commercial had the song "Turnaround" and it was about watching a child growing up.

This week my "little"boy was ill. He seemed more like me than a child in his demeanor and size.
I remember his first fever. Tiny baby, we were living in West Salem. I heard him from down the hall moaning.
I picked him up and he was drenched in sweat and limp as a ragdoll, literally with his arms and legs falling over my arms.
No Tylenol in the house so I drive until I find a 7-11. Come home and hold him in his sleep.
Turnaround
Now both my children are so ...big. They have such strong opinions.
I stand in awe -- probably as parents have forever.

Tuesday, March 14, 2006

Daffodils as a metaphor for a legacy

Every day I drive to work on a back road. I love the days when it is cold and the warm mist rises on the waste pond outside the dairy farm.

I most always look at an abandoned old house...cabin more like it. Door half broken. Windows damaged. Some plastic torn as a last effort to keep a shelter.

I wonder about the person who lived there.
Today I saw a great number of daffodils blooming outside of this old abode.

Who was it who planted these? Who was the person who took the effort to establish beauty in his or her world. Could they have guessed that long after they had gone -- their efforts would bring beauty to those they would never meet. Posted by Picasa

Monday, March 13, 2006

Good news for Creationists: No Bird Flu for You


If you are a Creationist, I am envious. You know there is no such thing as evolution. Oh how I wished I knew that. If I did -- I wouldn't be worried about bird flu.
That's because only through evolution (genetic mutation) is bird flu a danger to humans.


March 13, 2006 - In a remarkable speech over the weekend, Secretary of Health and Human Services Michael Leavitt recommended that Americans start storing canned tuna and powdered milk under their beds as the prospect of a deadly bird flu outbreak approaches the United States.
Ready or not, here it comes.
It is being spread much faster than first predicted from one wild flock of birds to another, an airborne delivery system that no government can stop.
"There's no way you can protect the United States by building a big cage around it and preventing wild birds from flying in and out," U.S. Secretary of Agriculture Michael Johanns said.
U.S. spy satellites are tracking the infected flocks, which started in Asia and are now heading north to Siberia and Alaska, where they will soon mingle with flocks from the North American flyways.
"What we're watching in real time is evolution," said Laurie Garrett, a senior fellow for global health at the Council on Foreign Relations. "And it's a biological process, and it is, by definition, unpredictable."

Friday, March 10, 2006

BIRTHDAY -- for neighbor Spencer

After Lazertag at Bulwinkles -- ice cream at Baskin Robbins.

Thursday, March 09, 2006

Snow hits Oregon on March 9

Here is the shot from my fourth floor office in Oregon City

Dusting of snow out the back window at home

Monday, March 06, 2006

At long last, a warrior for tax reform


At long last, a warrior for tax reform by Steve Duin
Sunday, March 05, 2006
Y ou want tax reform? You want an end to this nickel-and-dime tinkering with a $1 billion problem? Then you best pay attention to Ben Westlund.
Ted Kulongoski has proved you can't govern without tax reform. Ben Westlund doesn't want to try.
Tax reform isn't all we'll be talking about if Westlund, the moderate state senator from Bend running for governor as an independent, is elected in November. The former Republican considers a better health care delivery system equally important to the future of this state.
But unlike Kulongoski, who is hard pressed to discuss the problem, or Ron Saxton, who refuses to acknowledge it, Westlund is hammering away at tax reform, just as he did while serving in the Legislature.
"The most fundamental issue that needs to be discussed in this state is how revenues are raised," Westlund says. "The greatest Supreme Court justice, John Marshall, said, 'The power to tax involves the power to destroy,' and right now our current tax structure is destroying Oregon.
"We need to fundamentally and systemically reform the most volatile revenue structure in America . . . and no one will even talk about it. All anyone wants to do is nibble around the outside of the apple. It's time to stop nibbling and start making apple pie."
A few worms in the ol' tax apple popped into view last week when the Department of Revenue announced a $205 million corporate tax rebate, a timely reminder that Oregon has a corporate kicker when the economy is sailing but no rainy-day fund when it tanks. The news sent several candidates scurrying for the microphones, especially the ones who rediscover the courage to talk about taxes only when there's money on the table.
"It's one of those issues where the solutions are not rewarded in the political marketplace," said former Rep. Mark Hass, D-Beaverton. "Any solution is not going to be an easy one; therefore, it's bad politics and the consultants say, 'Don't do it.' "
Westlund isn't listening to the consultants; neither is he interested in promoting a percentage of the state budget for education, which, Hass notes, is little more than a cynical ploy for political cover. Westlund has beaten the drum for serious tax reform for five years, ever since -- as chief budget writer in the House -- he oversaw the draconian budget cuts during the 2001 special sessions.
In 2005, a 5 percent sales tax was a major part of a 60-page proposal -- House Bill 382 -- that Westlund cosponsored with Hass, Sen. Kurt Schrader, D-Canby, and Rep. Bob Jenson, R-Pendleton.
"In the past, tax reform has been code for 'sales tax.' And sales tax is too narrow a conversation," Westlund said. "If you go out to sell Oregonians a tack-on sales tax, that goes down 90-10. That's not what I'm talking about."
Westlund is talking about cutting income taxes in half and cutting the capital-gains tax. He's talking about reduced property taxes for low-income families and seniors -- "The only people who would have their taxes raised are visitors and tax cheats," Hass argues -- and raising an additional $1 billion for public schools and health care.
And as he talks, Democrats and Republicans alike are cheering his political suicide. Unlike Westlund, you see, they'd rather lord over a broken system than risk their candidacy on a valiant attempt to fix it.
"It's a lack of leadership. It's extreme partisanship. And it's a lack of courage to look over the horizon, when just looking down the street will get you by," Westlund said. "I don't know if it's right to run like this or wrong to run like this, but it's the right thing to do.
"Fundamental tax reform and fundamental reform in the delivery of our health care services -- that's what I stand for. Without both of them, we will continue to spiral down into mediocrity . . . and below."

Saturday, March 04, 2006

A world I could never have imagined

A few minutes ago, Sidney, our 3 year old neighbor, called to me from upstairs where she had been playing with our daughter.
Sid was saying "schoo" -- I thought she meant she wanted her shoes put on, which were laying on the ground.
When I held up a shoe she shook her head and pointed at me and said, "schoo" -- or in Sidneyese -- you.

She lifted her arms in the international gesture of asking to be lifted.
I picked her up and she put her head down on my shoulder.
We went to the sofa where I pulled a blanket over her and she went to sleep.

A world I could never have imagined -- one where a non-relative child feels so good and loved in the world that a neighbor is a safe and desired place to nap.

Wednesday, March 01, 2006

What a wonderful view of Mt. Hood from my building today

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Chess as a metaphor for life

It happened the other night when Catie asked me to play a game of chess

I had picked up a nice chess set in Mexico for the kids. We have it out all the time and it gets used every other day.

It was Catie's turn. She moved her Bishop to a square. Then it happened. She thought about the consequence -- and moved it back.

There are many things I want to teach my kids to prepare them for life. One of the most important is the ability to anticipate consequences. It is such a handy life skill.

I see the kids growing -- knowing the days until college are limited. They are such confident young people. Able to vacation with others on their own. Ricky will be traveling to New York this spring with his grandparents. Catie is becoming her own woman more every day.

There are times, I suppose, when every parent worries he or she isn't doing enough to guide, tutor and model. And then there are times when I marvel at what wonderful people they've become -- with my help, or even in spite of it.

Monday, February 27, 2006

Kids comfortable with technology?

My 10 year old front of a computer

In this case -- she is playing an online game. However, more and more she is getting into online shopping. Quite the observant shopper. Very detailed oriented.

Friday, February 24, 2006

Self portrait of the artist as a young man

Ricky Parker points to his self portrait as part of Trost Elementary's Art LiteracyProgram. Kim assisted in the schoolwide project. Kids were given the life and times of Van Goth and a mirror. Very revealing insight into the kids.

News Item: Oregon Gov.Says Getting Cold Meds Off Shelves Fights Meth


Today the gov gave his state of the state address. In it, he talked about legislation he supported to get cold meds off of shelves.

OK -- meth is bad.
Cold medicine is off the shelves.
How does that help when Mexican meth is half as expensive as locally made?
Good god.Has the aging generation of free love and pot forgotten?
Demand drives sales -- not supply.
Emerging medical theory on meth use is that it's like anything else -- self medication for anxiety and depression.
It doesn't help when the gov joins other politicians around the country and acts like this is a supply issue.
What happens if reducing the supply actually works? We actually stop 60%, no say 70, no say 85% of the meth supply?
Will that stop the use? Or will tweakers steal even more stuff to pay for the higher cost of a less available commodity. (Someone out there must know a Republican to explain supply and demand.)
Prohibition didn't work in the 30's. It didn't work for pot in the 70's. It won't work now. Ever.
Let's focus on the reasons people are taking drugs and alcohol.
rant concluded, thanks for your time.

goodbye to a fine Irish lass

We noticed that we hadn't recieved a Christmas

card from the Cliffords this year. Francesca and I had kept in touch over the ten years since we worked together in the higher education communications office. I even tried to hire her to work for me -- she accepted -- but then her boss paid her more and she stayed. She thanked me for the raise. Now, with an employee heading out on maternity leave, I wondered if Francesca was available. Phone disconnected at the college where she had worked. Maybe she was at home. I called and got a young teenaged girl's voice.
"Is Francesca there, " I asked. A pause. "No, she died."
I apologized for...interupting. I didn't know what to say.
I looked in the Oregonians obits and found hers from April 15. Dead at 45. I don't know the details. I do recall 2 years ago Francesca saying she had breast surgery. Complained about how the stitches hurt -- but how she was happy with her remade "front end." So, I am guessing it returned -- in a big way.
I loved being around Francesca. Full of life and Irish sass. Francesca, my dear, I raise a pint to your memory.

Thursday, February 23, 2006

A short rant on communications today



I've got a question for all those fancy smancy academics at universities.
Is there any research available to us folks in the field who are trying to communicate with citizens about childhood immunizations, services for elderly, road closures, etc?
Sure, you can call me a flak, not worthy of consideration within a discussion of journalism. However, if you are going to devote more time to scandals and fires, then someone has to convey information about municipal service availability to the 360,000 citizens in my county.
Implicit in the traditions of American journalism is civic education.
It's my observation that our collective ability to absorb and filter information has changed.
We used to have the seven second rule -- you had seven seconds to get someone's attention.
Has that changed? I bet it has.
Are we becoming more attention deficit?
How does this affect how we absorb and filter information.
Is there anyone in the communications field who is studying how we've changed in response to overwhelming information input?
Again, where is the help of academics in understanding how people are changing in their processing of information.
Is that being taught today in college? In communications? Or does one need to transfer to psychology in order to understand the changing nature of cognition.
Or sociology, on how people are spending their time.
What the hell are all those Ph.D.s in communications doing around the country? Just teaching the same old dribble I got 100 years ago -- spelling, AP Stylebook and inverted story?
Blah.
How has 500 channels changed our ability to find and absorb local TV news, for example?
What are the generational differences in absorbing civic information?

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all new Mexico blog

http://parkermexico2006.blogspot.com/

Wednesday, February 22, 2006

Monday, February 20, 2006

Saturday, February 18, 2006

Another party -- this time for Catie

It's Catie's family birthday party. Here we see Emma, Bryn and neghbor Sidney dressing up in Catie's dance performance outfits.

post party dressup

Dressing up after the birthday party. Catie, Emma, Bryn and Sidney

CSP and her American girl

Marisol

Our neice -- Claire

Catie reaching out to Claire Bear

Blogging and marriage -- an NPR commentary


A very funny and thoughtful piece written by this naturalist.

http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=5204627

Down goes the fence

We lost a 4 x 4 to the wind. Down went two sections. This photo taken from the adjacent bike path.

Friday, February 17, 2006

A windy day in Canby

Cold and strong Artic winds blew into our city today...knocking down some big trees not far from our house. These were taken near Ackerman Middle School.

Thursday, February 16, 2006

Reflections on my little girl turning 10

Catie and Kim are planning Catie's party. It will be a sleepover. Ricky and I are expected to get lost that night.
Catie is having an American Girl theme. AGs are realistic looking dolls. Catie's is Marisol -- an Hispanic-looking girl.
Earlier I had reflected that half of our time with her is over.
She will be off to college in just 8 years.
I've enjoyed her childhood.
She has grown to be a smart, self-confident person. She has her opinions and I love that.
She reminds me of other strong willed women I know and love.

Wednesday, February 15, 2006

Time and distance is no match for the Internet


Both born in Bellingham, Washington.
One living in Oregon.
The Other in Mexico.

http://tjbible.blogspot.com/

Have you ever seen babies this...odd?


From my friend, Captain Joe Dula -- can you guess what these are?

A moment in history -

To the best of my memory, we've never had a sitting member of an administration literally take a shot at someone.

CORRECTION - my brother took time away from watching the beaches in Mexico to point out:
Aaron Burr, bro, shot & killed Alexander Hamilton in a duel while veep. As Jon Stewart says, that was over a matter of honor. This guy got mistaken for a bird.


President Andrew Jackson killed a man in a duel -- but it was prior to his election as president.

Jackson was involved in many duels. A duel on May 30, 1806 against Charles Dickinson was over some unflattering remarks made about Jackson's wife. In this duel Jackson was wounded. After he was hit, he took aim and fired at Dickinson. Jackson's gun misfired. As Dickinson was forced to stand his ground, Jackson took aim once again and killed Dickinson. The bullet that wounded Jackson was lodged near his heart and could not be safely removed. He carried that bullet in his chest for the rest of his days.

Saturday, February 11, 2006

Swinging...from a 100 year old walnut tree

Ricky attends a birthday party along the banks of the Willamette River

Willamette -- fish pond in foreground

Spring returns to 9th Street

Along with budding trees and the first lawnmowers -- the children return to the streets to play.